So You Want A Revenge Glo-Up

You have to leave your comfort zone if you wanna glo-up.

Disclaimer: If you're here to hear all about how to make your ex suffer, then you've come to the wrong place. Why? Because this shit we're on isn't about them. It about YOU. We're striving for personal growth. Plus, if your ex is someone who feeds off of knowing that they broke you or that you miss them, then seeing you thrive and prosper is all the revenge you need.

• Determine why you're striving to change. Introspection is needed to figure out if your intentions are the right ones. Keep someone you trust close, a bff who is positive on self growth is highly suggested.
• Realize that feelings won't disappear immediately. It's okay to miss them or to be sad about your break up, but don't let that lead to reaching out and regretting it later. It's time to GLO!
• Rebounds aren't for everyone. Put in some overtime at work instead: getting money is a great revenge, distraction and tool to boost your savings.
• Think about yourself and how you can grow: take on courses, treat yourself to the spa, and read books that motivate your glo-up.
• Every relationship teaches us something about ourselves. Self reflect and own your mistakes. Both parties usually did something wrong.
• Don't feel like a failure because a relationship didn't last, and don't lose yourself trying to become who they wanted.
• Revenge often isn't sweet, it wastes time and energy. The best revenge is moving on in silence and doing YOU. THRIVE!
• Delete their number and clear things out. Don't stalk their social media. Blocking them isn't petty, it's a healing tactic.
• Don't air your dirty laundry publicly, and don't stop taking care of yourself; you deserve your very best.
• Give yourself space to heal, make new friends, do more things. Most exes love seeing us suffer, so don't allow that to happen.
• Don't post about your heartbreak or that you've moved on: the best way to show it is to leave the relationship in the past and move in silence.
• There's no reason for exes to be hitting you up. If they try to reach out, don't respond or tell them to stay in their lane.

ignoring is a classy revenge.

• If you were cheated on, don't let that person back into your life, no matter how lonely you think you are.
• Change for you, not because of what they said. Teach yourself to see your own beauty and be happy with who you are.
• Prove to yourself and the world that you don't need them by keeping your job, school, mind and body in order.
• Most importantly, don't jump into another relationship until you're comfortable being you. Happiness comes from within.

The real glo up is when you stop waiting to turn into some perfect hypothetical version of yourself and consciously enjoy being who you are in the present moment.